Monday 3 September 2012

Love/Trust

I am intrigued by this question: would you rather be hurt by the one you trust the most or the one you love the most? Love and trust: these two virtues usually go hand in hand, don’t they? You can’t love someone if you don’t trust them.

But I don’t think you love and trust someone on the same level. You can love a person but your trust is not as high. Likewise, you can trust someone with your life, but you don’t love him or her as much. Think of a family or friend or your special someone. Sometimes, you don’t even share your problems with your mom or dad or brothers or sisters, but you choose your best friends, or that one guy/girl.

Does that show that you don’t love your family? Maybe not. It just show that you like to vent your trust towards people who are your age, the people who you think connect with you the most due to the similar backgrounds and experience. You still love your family, you just don’t think they will understand.

Still, if a bickering among friends or break-up happens, it may seem as if you might have given your trust to the wrong party, but will that hurt be as disruptive as being hurt from your family? This is the time when you’ll realise deep down the people who you really trust and love more.

3 hecks:

fidza wahab said...

yela... ak rse penting utk asingkan love & trust. 2 combination ni cukup kuat utk bwk kite ke tgkt plg tgi dlm hdp, tp cukup dasyat gak utk jatuhkn kite ke tgkt plg rndh dlm hdp... rasenye.

Afiq said...

Agaknya kita kena pandai balancekan antara edua-dua ni kan? ^^

fidza wahab said...

Betul. Funny aku jumpa balik discussion 6tahun lepas, tapi sebab worth thinking of, aku decide utk komen balas.

So setakat yg sempat aku ambil pengajaran dewasa ni, kalau tak balance love dan trust tu, it'll hurt painfully. We should really keep a person who we can both love & trust equally in our circle. Kalau salah satu lack, kena let go. By let go, aku maksudkan keluarkan dari circle. Kau boleh keep as friend, but cant keep them close. Tu pon kalau nak keep lah, kalau tak terserah kau.