Thursday, 15 November 2012


Semua orang cakap muka aku ngan Yaya sama.
Sama ke? Tak kan? Kan?

The thing about life is you can’t stop hurting other people, whether unintentionally or deliberately [if you do it deliberately, that's another question]. Sometimes, you just do or say the thing that you want to because you think it’s your responsibility, because you’re really doing the work that you are trusted with. In other words, you don’t really want to make yourself a reason for the pain or trouble for other people.

You know, it’s tough to get others to understand you. Sometimes you just want to let them know that “hey, I didn't do that because I wanted to make you suffer.” It’s hard to do so really. You will just feel upset and then you start thinking that maybe you should not have done it.

Anyway, why do we choose to hurt others? Why can’t we just stay quiet and stop being jerks? There are times even when small things get escalated so quickly because of we can’t control our anger.

I think that is what humans do well: hurting people. Along the way, we also hurt ourselves.

4 hecks:

ZeLL~LeaH said...

besa tu. human nature. lol

Afiq said...

I try not to hurt people, but still it happens unintentionally, and people will be angry and starts to say things that hurt me instead.

Life: it's hard to be fully angelic.

ZeLL~LeaH said...

just paraphrase your words. reflect upon your actions. change what needs to be changed. that's all. as humans, we cannot be angelic for we are not angels. it's just a part of human nature.

Afiq said...

I'm trying to do that, and I also try not to bother on things that will hurt me. ^^

I guess experience comes in all kinds of ways.